Umm, I just got here but if you are suggesting that people with opinions and eyes are afraid to stand up for themselves to a poster that only focuses on one thing at a time, then your wrong. I doubt anyone was cowering , waiting for the first guy to speak. What is this? The final scene in "Unforgiven"?
If someone has an opinion and stands behind it that apparently equals bitching to some of you bitches. To me, complaining about people having opinions, is bitching, because you aren't arguing against the topic, but just that someone has an opinion that you perceive as negative or opposite your own view. If someone has an observation you disagree with then convince them that they are wrong. Don't bitch to others that you don't like their observation.